Anonymous asked: The new one. I can understand that she's hurt, but she's being so hateful, petty and pathetic. I feel like her hatred for me is unfair. I'm also finding avoiding her a hassle. I don't think she's going to get over it anytime soon.
I can see it from both sides. Let’s face it, we’ve all been in this situation. It’s not easy. It’s also hard to say what I think without knowing your situation. There are so many factors to consider - did their relationship end because of you? Have you been together for a long time? Were they together for a long time? Did they only recently break up? Are they friends? Does he still contact her? Is she going out of her way to bring you down? etc etc etc.
The best course of action in this situation (and most situations, come to think of it) is be polite and nice and take the high road. It can be really hard, but as long as you feel like you’re being a good person that’s all you can really do. And at least you’ll feel good about yourself.
