Anonymous asked: Hi Katherine. I know you're kind of over the non-fashion related q's but I was wondering if you could make an exception... My best friend (male) has just told me that he has feelings for me. I'm not sure how to deal with this and I don't know if I should talk to our other friends about it and most importantly I'm really unsure of how I feel myself. I am worried about doing anything incase I ruin the friendship we have. HELP
Hi there. You know what? I like all my questions, even if they’re hater questions.
Regarding your dilemma - I can understand being unsure, but I think if you have reciprocal feelings for him, deep down you know you do. And you probably do, because if you didn’t you wouldn’t have this problem and you wouldn’t be asking me for advice, you’d have already told him it’s not going to happen.
It’s risky to cross the friendship line, but then if you never took risks you’d never get anywhere.
In saying that, the majority of relationships don’t last so you’ve got to be prepared to lose him forever.
Finally, one thing to consider - has the friendship been compromised now that he’s told you this? If you end up not pursuing a romantic relationship with him, will it be weird and awkward for him to continue being friends with you?
